Just Another Sleepless Night

It is 1:49am in the morning. I do not feel like sleeping. Despite wanting to live a healthy lifestyle, sometimes I tend to indulge myself. Some of my assignments were being done during these very periods where my creativity is at it peak and having the prefect condition to brain storm or do multiple level thinking. Not to mention the silent really completed the equation for my brain to work.

Tonight…or this morning, the things running in my mind is about the relationship between me and others, peers in particulars. What does it takes to mix around in our peer groups, to have fun with them, to get involve, to share about our inner feelings, to accompany each other…..Is it about common interest? Is it about same subjects taking? Is it about language, culture or all the background thingy?

Maybe not all of us can mix with everyone around us and there is no need to do so. Different people might need to have different friend. Being someone friend or having someone as a friend is not an easy job and require great deal of commitment, acceptance, trust and most of all, love. When we started to establish a relationship with a person, we are basically trying to love and to accept that person. If he feels the acceptance, then he will do the same for us. Thus, a friendship is being established.

Friends doesn’t come easily, time can help us to built friendship and to recognise friends that are going to accompany us throughout our life, graduate with us, attending prom with us, go snorkelling and BBQ together, attending each other wedding, hug each other’s wife, tap each other shoulder and enjoy delicious food together. Life is about love. By loving our friends through sharing, caring, being sensitive, connected, and communication, we are able to have better moments in every part of our life. Human are emotional being, we need to love and feel loved in order to be happy and thrive.

Here is the call, let us talk to one another with our heart and share our love with them. By doing this, we will have a group of people that are like us, always be there for us and encourages each other along our life. Then, we as a stardust in the pale blue dot (earth) will not be alone and lonely in the mist of the universes, anymore.

Friends forever,

Tam, Alex